“There is but one solution to the intricate riddle of life; to improve ourselves, and contribute to the happiness of others.”
~Mary Shelly
Buddhism speaks of the impermanence that is human existence.
We are born and we die.
Nobody gets out alive.
However, what exists for each of us between these
two states is of our own making.
For the last year I have been obsessing about death.
Like talk to my therapist every two weeks about death obsessing.
Like not appreciating where I am and what I have due to this obsessing.
On Saturday I read that an old friend had died.
It was sudden, unexpected, and I am overwhelmed with sadness.
Sadness for her light that no longer shines.
Sadness for her family and friends who are hurting.
The outpouring of love and admiration online has given me pause.
Can I be more like Ritchey?
She was kind.
She radiated joy.
Ritchey contributed to the happiness of others.
I am hoping that, with Ritchey as an inspiration, I can shake off this melancholy and start contributing to my world’s happiness.
To quote one of Ritchey’s students
“Can we just spread love and make sure to
let our people know we love them?”
I’m gonna try and as I do, I’m gonna keep Ritchey
front and center in my mind as I spread this love.
Rest in peace my friend.
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